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Sacrifice is disgusting!

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Let me make one thing very clear at the start itself.
For what were you born? Just think.
No, not for others, but for yourself. You are here just for your own sake.“You are the only reason for your existence.”

So what about the verb called ‘Sacrifice’?
Whenever there is a sacrifice, there will definitely be someone collecting the sacrificial offering. And if you plan or you are currently in the state of sacrificing, then I would like to ask – WHY?
Why the hell should you become a martyr for someone else? Why should you loose yourself if you stand to gain nothing from it?
Being a martyr is so graceless. It’s actually honoring your adversaries too much.

“You were not born to be a doormat for others to come and wipe their feet. And discard you as something useless in the end.”

As always, I reinforce my view that society consists of parasites and creators. There are a lot of evil forces that are ready to suck you out of your happiness and these evils are technically ‘impotent’. Yes. They can’t reproduce easily. And the only weapon of their triumph is the willingness of the good to sacrifice itself for the evil.

Joy is the ultimate goal of our existence and not sacrifice. And believe me, our past has ample examples that support my view. Nobody has become great just by the act of sacrificing. (But I agree that there are exceptions) Rather those who did rise up were the ones who followed their heart and lived for themselves and not others.
So if a man speaks to you of sacrifice; he is speaking of slaves and masters, creators and parasites. But if ever you come across a man, who tells you that you must be happy, that it is your natural right, that your first duty is to yourself – then that is the man, who is not after your soul. He is willing to gain nothing from you.Though I shouldn’t , but still I will tell you to stop sacrificing for others, and try your hands at being Rationally Selfish.
you got to pursue self interests and you should reject any form of human sacrifice, whether of oneself or of others.
And I swear, you will never in your life get an invitation to be great. So, devote your time towards planning for greatness, and not thinking about others.

Too boring?
Yes I know. I can be quite boring at times.

To sum up, I just want to say one thing…

“You are an end in yourself, not the means to the end of others.”

So keep rockin’
(…and not for heaven’s or god’s sake, but for your own sake, ….stop SACRIFICING!)


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September 27, 2007 at 1:50 pm

You know you are in love…

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When you see her and your eyes light up,
And your heart skips a beat.
When you think about her all day,
And you see her in your dreams.
When you write her name on every page,
And draw hearts on the cover of every book.
When you look in the mirror and see her face,
And you find her wherever you look.
When you find nature so romantic, that you want to dance when it rains.
When you spread out your arms,
And wish that she would embrace you.
And gently remove the strands of hair from her face.
When you go to sleep with a smile on your face,
And wake up smiling knowing no reason.
When you close your eyes & find her smiling at you.
Your heart aches for her.
You want her to love you.
Then you know you are in love…

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September 27, 2007 at 1:43 pm

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My shadow is the only one that walks besides me

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Only when there is total darkness, will this thought become useless. Because in the times of darkness, even the shadow won’t be there to accompany you.

I have had my own array of negative experiences and I swear, people will never forgive a man who is slipping. Never.

The thoughts like “I have friends, family etc…” might have started creeping up into your mind. And yes, these thoughts are true. You definitely have all of them. But when the going gets tough, it all actually boils down to you, and only you. You are the one who has to take the last decision. The mind is an attribute of an individual. There is no such thing as a collective brain or collective thought. An agreement reached by a group of men is only a compromise on an average drawn upon many individual thoughts.

To validate my point, I would now be sharing a thought given by the goddess of ‘objectivism’: Ayn Rand –
“A creator’s concern is the conquest of nature. Others are just parasite. A parasite’s main concern is conquest of men. Creator’s primary goal is within himself while that of parasite is outside him.”

You just try to recollect who is the creator and who are the parasites of your life. You will know that you are walking alone. And it’s not your fault. It is meant to be that way. Every man has to do his own bidding.

I may be sounding like “a-man-standing-in-glass-half-empty”, but there is no point keeping oneself under the illusion of receiving security and warmth from others.

Everyone is here for a reason and believe me, the reason is definitely not ‘you’. Everyone is here for his or her own self.
It may sound funny, but just take a walk on any of the lonely streets in your neighborhood. Think about all those who are close to you and you will know, that atleast your shadow is not a parasite.

And loneliness is not a crime. When you realize about it, you can always analyze your ‘sphere of relationships’ in a new light. You can give different priorities to your many ‘true’ relationships. Or else what is the use of trying to make someone a priority in your life when you are still an option in theirs.

And if you are a loner, then history is in your favor.
The lonely men and women of unborrowed vision went ahead. They fought, they suffered and they paid. But they won.

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September 15, 2007 at 12:12 pm

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