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Never apologize

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It must have happened with all of us. We felt something and we went up to the concerned person, and poured our heart out. And then, the feeling of repentance sets in.
I think, this is wrong.

You should never apologize for showing your feelings. Because when you do so you apologize for the truth. You should always tell the truth to the person you are talking to. There is no point telling lies and saying that you like someone, when you don’t.
Be confident, and tell your actual feelings.
And then don’t apologize for it.
I am not saying that you should never apologize. What I mean is that, don’t attempt to take back your true feelings which you have already displayed.
This is absolutely useless.
I remember one of my friends telling me, “the feeling that changes, never existed in first place.”
Absolutely wrong.
I think, feelings are a function of past and not future. So when we gain more experiences, feelings are bound to change. But that does not mean that you were wrong in the first place.

So, don’t apologize 😉


Written by Dev

August 23, 2007 at 7:07 am

Posted in Feelings