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Love ?

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I am not here to bog you with stuffs like “ Love is a selfless feeling…blah blah..”For those who have found the love of their life, you might not be able to digest all of this…
But still, I feel like pouring my heart out on this VERB


Yes! Love is a VERB (though technically it’s a feeling and specifically a NOUN..)

Love is simply put, EXCEPTION MAKING.
When you love someone, you are making an exception in the rule for the person. Though, the degree of exception might differ from person to person.
But is this feeling, so simple?
Definitely not.
It is the reverence and worship and glory and the upward glance.

now it has become so complex… 😉

Love is simply speaking, giving yourself up. Its like you are ready to handover a part of your life to someone you have chosen.
It means giving up your understanding and becoming more comfortable with the unknown.
Love does not mean gazing at each other or just cuddling away but looking outwards together in the same direction.
Very rarely, I repeat, very rarely will you see someone loving somebody other selflessly. It is always that the person is in love with his own ‘choice’ of the person.

But I have seen a lot of people who are in love and I swear, the twinkle in the eyes of a person who cherishes you and the glow on her face are the most beautiful things anyone can witness on this earth.

Always remember, that before you can say ‘I love you’ , you must know the meaning of ‘I’ or you will fail miserably.

And ladies…always do remember one thing…
When a man is in love with a woman, she is in big trouble.

Keep rockin’



Written by Dev

June 27, 2007 at 8:11 am

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  1. look here all u young people in search 4 love first extend your hand instead of heart,proceed only
    when both of u agree on the point
    and r willing to sacrifice and remain committed throughtout ur lives.
    one important point to be noted here is that a stable relationship
    cannot be defined by looks alone ,and LOOKS should not be the ONLY criteria of being attracted to a person,understanding and abiding by each other is also athing.
    so best of luck to all the lovers, wish u all the best in ur relationship!


    July 8, 2007 at 11:47 am

  2. do you really think that love is nothing????
    i seriously disagree….


    July 20, 2007 at 4:15 pm

  3. yaar i dont think myself to be as mature to comment on this delicate i can syrly say k lucky r the ones who get there true love and those r even more lucky who r successful in that love….so dont considere yourself as failure if u r nt successful in ur true love…


    July 21, 2007 at 9:41 am

  4. Yup u r right my dear friend…..

    First the person should know the meaning of “I”……

    That’s the mistake most people do!!!!



    August 15, 2008 at 10:53 am

  5. dude u really need 2 get urself refreshed…n get ur priorities rite…u cn only knw wat luv is wen u r in it 🙂


    September 2, 2008 at 4:42 am

  6. It means giving up your understanding and becoming more comfortable with the unknown.

    Always remember, that before you can say ‘I love you’ , you must know the meaning of ‘I’ or you will fail miserably.

    contradictory no? if i need to know “I” just to give it up for the unknown..y waste time..gv it up neway..
    Love might mean not giving up either and still b comfortable wd the other… compromising is not love..its well..just a compromise

    Niti Jain

    April 28, 2009 at 2:45 pm

  7. The initial “I love you” phase is simply dissolution of ego boundaries. This is the phase of ‘exception making’.

    Once both the parties are together long enough (the period varies) and once the meaning of “I” starts getting known to both the individuals, these ego boundaries start re-emerging. When this happens, there can be potential trouble. The exception making doesn’t happen anymore. They start nitpicking on each other and might eventually break off.

    This is the precise reason why “growing” together is very healthy for a relationship. Jumping to marriage with a short-term courtship increases the probability for a disaster later; unless one of the parties is ready for continuous compromises.


    May 1, 2009 at 5:08 pm

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